We are more than our thoughts, identities, actions. We are potential. The key question is not “who are you?” but “who could you be?” Several “eternal forces” are at play in our deepest layers. Excessive order can be stultifying. A voluntary death and rebirth transformation is necessary when too much petrifying order has been established in our lives over the years. We can be much more than we currently are. But consciously deciding who to be requires careful attention and looking into the darkest places within ourselves.