You may not feel successful, but you are winning at your own life even if you have doubts about your income or relationship status. For example, Jack yearns for lasting love but has experienced failed relationships and breakups, leading him to believe he’s unlovable.
When he finally finds someone, the relationship eventually crumbles, confirming his belief that he can’t maintain a lasting relationship.
We all have negative beliefs that hold us back, but we need to identify them to overcome them.