How to handle relationships when you are in position of power?
‘I think my family, my friendships, we’ve kept our community. That keeps us solid and keeps us whole and grounded.’ – Michelle Obama
Michelle Obama reflects on her time as the First Lady and how it impacted her personal relationships. She delves into the challenges of being in a position of power, dealing with constant information overload, and maintaining mental peace.
She also shares valuable insights about managing long-term relationships.
Table of Contents
- Building a Supportive Community
- Dealing with Survivor’s Remorse
- Trusting Your Gut Instincts
- Staying Connected in Power Positions
- Disconnecting from Constant Information Flow
- Cultivating Hobbies for Mental Peace
- Focusing on Small, Controllable Actions
- Navigating Long-term Relationships
- Managing Expectations in Relationships
- Maintaining Independence in Relationships
- ‘Quit Worthy’ Situations in Relationships
- Choosing Respect Alongside Love
Building a Supportive Community
Michelle Obama emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive community to stay grounded amidst challenges.
This is especially crucial when one is in a position that demands high responsibility and public scrutiny.
Dealing with Survivor’s Remorse
The feeling of ‘survivor’s remorse’, where individuals experience guilt for their success while others struggle, can be overwhelming.
However, it’s essential to understand that personal growth shouldn’t be hindered by carrying others’ burdens.