• Search for the cracks. Spend some time looking at the major areas of your life (work, marriage, family, service, etc.), and identify anywhere you might have cut corners, compromised, or let people down.
• Look for patterns. Examine the responses that you just wrote down.
• Face the music. The beginning of character repair comes when you face your flaws, apologize, and deal with the consequences of your actions.
•Rebuild. It’s one thing to face up to your past actions. It’s another to build a new future.