Lead with good vibes
Instead of saying “no” say “Aww, I love seeing our kiddos play together, but we can’t tonight.” (Leading with good vibes).
Good vibes sandwich
Or instead of saying ‘no” say “Aww, I love seeing our kiddos play together, but we can’t tonight. I hope you guys have a fun time, it’s suppose to be a beautiful night!” (Sandwiching my no with good vibes).