- It is a result of all-or-nothing thinking: If I don’t get an A+ I’m a failure
- If she doesn’t love me, I’m unloveable
- It kills your emotional confidence-your belief in your ability to do the right thing despite not feeling the way you want
- If you’re holding yourself to impossibly high standards, you’re never going to trust yourself to reach them
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