Set specific intentions.
The more targeted your request is, the more likely the receiver will be to understand whether they have the capacity to help.
There are four different types of advice:
- Discrete, where you need help exploring options for a single decision.
- Counsel, where you need guidance on how to approach an unfamiliar situation.
- Coaching, where you need help with personal development.
- Mentoring, where you need support in navigating work and building your career.