Start small.
Trying to attain too many skills altogether can be distracting. Initially start with one or two skills to focus on at a time, and break that skill down into manageable goals.
Reflect along the way.
Whatever skill you learn, you need to reflect on it on others. Share your goals and progress with people who can provide you with every kind of support and give valuable feedback along the way. This will keep you accountable and cement the change.