The Psychology Of Disagreements: The Missing Voice

The fourth voice, which is missing during a disagreement, is the voice of possibility.

This muted voice seeks to make conflict productive. This voice resonates with questions like:

  • What are we missing?
  • What else is possible?
  • What else can we do with what we have?
  • Who else can we bring into the conversation to give us a new perspective?

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