Three Questions

When something bad occurs, ask yourself three questions—and come up with an intelligent way to answer each one “no”:

  • Is this permanent?
  • Is this pervasive?
  • Is this personal?

The more you explain bad events as temporary, specific, and external, the more likely you are to persist even in the face of adversity.

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