Why do most relationships fail?

Esteemed relationship expert Esther Perel delves into the complexities of human connections in her insightful discussion on why 80% of relationships fail.

She explores the pitfalls and challenges couples face, while offering practical advice on how to nurture and sustain a healthy relationship.

The destruction quartet in relationships

Indifference, contempt, neglect, and violence are identified as the primary factors leading to relationship failure.

Indifference stems from a perceived lack of care from the partner, while contempt involves a degrading view of the other person.

Neglect surfaces when the relationship is taken for granted, and violence can manifest in various forms of disrespect and aggression.

The influence of childhood experiences

Our childhood experiences play a significant role in shaping our adult relationships.

The manner in which we learned about trust, commitment, and closeness during our formative years influences the dynamics of our relationships in adulthood.

If you want desire, it’s risk. And the risk is an emotional risk. – Esther Perel