Mini Habits – Stephen Guise
Personal development blogger Stephen Guise offers a self-improvement program that is “too small to fail.”
Managing Willpower
Studies show that human beings have only a limited supply of willpower.
The five primary causes of weakening willpower or self-control – called “ego depletion” – are:
- effort
- perceived difficulty
- negative affect
- subjective fatigue
- blood glucose levels.
The Problem with Motivation
An inverse relationship connects motivation and willpower.
When your motivation is high and you’re enthusiastic about something, you only need a little willpower to get going.
When the initial buzz wears off or you must face a task you don’t want to do, your need for willpower rises.
When an aspirational activity requires lots of willpower, you’re less likely to stick with it.
STEPHEN GUISE
You already have all the inspiration you need inside you, but it may be dormant. Awaken it with mini habits.
Think Small
The advantage of mini habits is that repetition strengthens your willpower. Each task requires just a little willpower to complete and the frequency of repetition forms a habit over time.
Once a habit is in place, you can build on it more easily. That’s why stupid small is powerful.
Write Everything Down
Writing something down gives it importance. Visually track your mini habit success to reinforce your sense of accomplishment.
Crossing your performance off on a calendar each day gives you a graphic representation of your progress. Several digital apps can help you reinforce your mini habit by tracking your progress.
Mini Habits: Rules And Workings
Mini habits work because they deplete little of your willpower reserve.
On the mini-habit plan, you divide your goals into “stupid small” but effective actions.
The mini-habit rules are: don’t cheat, be glad when you succeed, give yourself rewards, stay with your new routine, and drop back and go smaller if it gets hard.
Stop Fighting With Yourself
To make changes last, you need to stop fighting against your brain.
Instead, decide that you’re better off taking a step, even a small step, than staying in the same place. Taking one small step daily leads you in the right direction and sets you on your way to developing a lifelong habit. The small step requires little willpower, but its results are enormous.
STEPHEN GUISE
Smart willpower management is key to personal development as smart money management is key to financial success.
Mini Habits: Too Small To Fail
Take one small step every day to initiate a lifelong positive habit.
People form habits over time through repeated behaviours.
A mini habit is the smallest possible iteration of a positive habit, like one push-up.
A mini habit is “too small to fail” because it requires only a tiny bit of willpower, and you quickly accumulate a record of success.
When your motivation for an activity is high, you don’t need much willpower. When your motivation is low, you need a lot of willpower, which most people don’t have.
Meet Your Schedule And Drop High Expectations
While having a positive belief in your capabilities is good, setting your expectations too high can hold you back.
When you’ve exceeded your stupid small goal several days in a row, your expectations will naturally rise. You won’t be content with one push-up when you’ve done 25 every day. Resist the urge to increase the mini goal to match your elevated expectations. Feel good about your accomplishments and focus on consistency.
Eight Mini-Habit Rules
- Never, ever cheat
- Be happy with all progress
- Reward yourself often, especially after a mini habit
- Stay level-headed
- If you feel strong resistance, back off and go smaller
- Remind yourself how easy this is
- Never think a step is too small
- Put extra energy and ambition toward bonus reps, not a bigger requirement.
Choose Your Mini Habits And Habit Plan
Write a list of positive habits you’d like to have.
Break each habit down into a stupid small step, the minimum possible action, such as sorting one email or saying thank you to one person a day.
Now give it a try.
Try a mini habit for a week and evaluate the results.
Then choose to either focus on that mini habit (the “Single Mini Plan”) or to accomplish multiple mini habits a day (the “Multiple Mini Plan”).
If you have one primary goal, such as getting in shape, the Single Mini Plan will be the more effective approach.
Use The Why Drill On Each Mini Habit
Ask yourself why you want to instil a mini habit into your life, and delve deeply into the answer by asking the question more than once.
Make sure that your mini habits align with your values.
Forming A Habit
Contrary to common belief, the average time it takes to form a habit is not 21 to 30 days. Studies show it takes anywhere from 18 to 254 days to form a habit. The average person needs 66 days.
You’ll know when a behaviour becomes a habit when you experience a decrease in resistance. Instead of forcing yourself to meet your one push-up goal, for example, you’ll head to the gym without giving it much thought.
Mini habits are low-willpower Trojan horses that can leverage their easy access into the brain’s control room into big results.
Define Your Habit Cues
Habits are either “time-based” or “activity-based.” Identify which cue works for each new mini habit.
Do you want to exercise at a specific time, such as nine every morning, or give yourself more flexibility, such as before dinner? If specific cues tax your willpower, assign yourself general cues, such as completing the mini habit before bedtime.
Create Your Reward Plan
Many habits don’t offer immediate rewards. Sculpting your abs, for example, takes time. Give yourself mini rewards to accompany your mini habits.
For example, allow yourself a 10-minute power nap or watch a fun video as a reward for meeting your mini goal.
Watch For Signs of Habit
Several signs will tell you that you’ve developed a positive habit:
You’ll feel less resistance and perform the activity without much thought.
The activity will become less emotional and more routine.
You incorporate it into your identity, such as “I’m a writer” or “I’m a cyclist.”