Mastering Nonverbal Communication: More than Just Words
This idea explores the importance of nonverbal communication in conveying deeper meaning, going beyond the words we speak.
Dana Carney, a professor at Berkeley’s Haas School of Business, highlights the significance of nonverbal cues in shaping perceptions of power and status, as well as their role in various cultural contexts.
When you go from just focusing on verbal messages to thinking about nonverbal communication… It’s how you say it, how long you say it, how you physically show up, and not just you personally, but the stuff you put in front of you, all of that. – Dana Carney
Coherence across communication channels
Consistency across different channels of nonverbal communication, such as voice, body language, and facial expressions, can enhance credibility and confidence in communication.
Understanding one’s goal in a social interaction is essential for employing appropriate nonverbal cues.
Fluency in nonverbal cues
Becoming fluent in nonverbal communication involves recognizing the language of nonverbal cues associated with various emotions and intentions, such as liking, trust, and power.
Role of context in interpretation
Context plays a crucial role in how nonverbal cues are interpreted.
The same words can convey different meanings based on the environment and situation.
Importance of practice
Practicing nonverbal behaviors that align with one’s authentic self, even if it requires adjusting certain cues to match communication goals, can lead to more genuine and impactful interactions.
By default, I think many people think of the words that I say. And what I’m hearing, you say is we have to expand that goal to be thinking about how do we achieve that goal, not just for the words we say but how we say it. – Dana Carney
Successful communication strategies
Successful communication requires clarity on goals, understanding one’s baseline nonverbal behaviors, and practicing to ensure authenticity and effectiveness in conveying intended messages.
Inspiring communicators
Winston Churchill is admired as a communicator for his ability to rally and inspire people.
Despite his speech impediment, he utilized pauses effectively in his speeches, demonstrating the power of nonverbal communication.
Role of nonverbal cues in credibility
Nonverbal communication can be more meaningful than verbal communication in certain instances.
Consistency across channels (voice, body, face, and words) can convey credibility and confidence effectively.
Importance of self-awareness
Self-awareness and seeking feedback from others are crucial for improving nonverbal communication skills, as one’s perception of their nonverbal behavior may differ from how others perceive it.
